love was never an easy game to play
I had many adventurous relationships with Europeans and with each of them I dived into a world of a new mentality which fascinated me. But none of them fulfilled me the way I desired and I always focused on them more than on what I truly needed to grow and be happy. But every argument, every drama, every crisis, and every break-up was bringing me closer to my perfect man.
Finding him was no easy ride. And when we started dating, he was haunted by his ex’s an oh’s and was not ready to commit and has split with me four times. I came back to hunt him more after every rejection. I wasn’t gonna give up. It took him 2 years to realise we are meant to be together. And today we expect a little boy and love each other unconditionally. Is our relationship perfect? Is any of them perfect? No. But what determines its longevity is not the number of interests in common, nor the amount of times we say the l-word. It is our adaptability and will to respond to change and overcome difficulties.
My story proves that in the game of love, there is no rights and wrongs and the only thing that really matters is surrendering to what you feel is good for you- forget what others tell you. And I became a life coach to pass this message on. I want women to hear that being vulnerable is beautiful and that they should love because they want to grow and not because they need love.